Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Family Memories

This past week I lost someone very dear to me - my great-aunt Yvonne.
She was the youngest sister of my grandmother, who I call Nanny. Their other two siblings have already passed away so Aunt Von and Nanny were extra close in the last few years.
Aunt Vonne was always a kidder. Every Christmas, she would bring her family to Alabama (they lived in Apopka, Florida) and she would bring her sisters gag gifts. Anyway, one year it was red long underwear with the butt flap, one year it was giant panties, "fake" perfume, you name it. Thing is, they always posed for pictures with their gifts.
(I wish I had the pictures to post, but my mother has them.)
Aunt Vonne's laugh was so musical. She had the sweetest southern accent I had ever heard. Very gentile. I am going to miss that laugh. She had a way of making you feel right at home.
She took care of me when I lived in Florida and was working for Disney on their
College Program. Every week, I'd visit and do my laundry. I always got yelled at for being late. LOL
One year, when I was a little girl, I stayed with Aunt Vonne for a few weeks. My cousin, Kim, and I are about the same age, so we had a blast playing outside. They had just dug a hole for an underground pool and there was a huge mound of sandy dirt sitting next to it, so Kim and I decided to play on it and in it.
We dug, and crawled, and slid... Aunt Vonne took one look at us and turned a hose on us. Wouldn't let us in the house we were so dirty.
She also let us play the record player over and over again. We listened to ABBA, to Grease, anything disco. Kim and I took turns being Sandy and Danny.
She has granddaughters that will miss her terribly. They are all young and haven't had the joy of having her around as long as I have had my Nanny. Bless their hearts. It's going to be hard for them.
So, goodbye, Aunt Vonne. You are loved and missed.

I Love Finding New Blogs
I ran across another southern blog today called
A Southern Daydreamer and really enjoyed reading the posts.
One of the things she is involved in is Outdoor Wednesday. You post pictures of something outdoors to your blog and link to hers. I like the idea a lot considering that I love taking outdoor pictures anyway. So I think I will join in the fun tomorrow, which is Wednesday.
Too cool.
Monday, August 10, 2009

Thursday, August 13th
6:45 - 7:15 Colors of the Woods jewelry
I will be having a special sale for those who attend. All of my wine glass markers will be 20% off and
if you purchase a necklace, earrings will be 50% off. Hope to see you there!
Here is the official blurb..A Sassy Affair Shopping Extravaganza
Sponsored by Sassy Sisters In Sales
August 13, 2009
5:00pm - 9:15 pm EST
Various vendors representing a variety of products. There is something for everyone. Games, Prizes, Special Deals, Exclusive Savings! Invite your friends - they won't want to miss this either! All of our guests will be entered for a chance to win fabulous prizes , but you must REGISTER !!!!!!!
Event will take place on WAHMChats.com. In the menu select Chat rooms, enter your name, no password needed. Once logged in you'll be in "the lounge". At the top of the box click on the arrow & choose the room assigned to a Sassy Affair. Sit back and enjoy the fair! Chime in with questions or comments anytime.
Tuesday, July 07, 2009

Family Essays and Facebook
Lately, my past is catching up to me. No matter how hard I try to hide, fate has a way of bashing down the door and smacking me on the face....whack whack....then thumping me on the nose for good measure.
My fate is to write.
Even when I don't feel like it or even know what to write.
To wit, I googled myself and saw all the pages of stories, poems and essays that I have written in the past and just knew that I was going to have to come out of my self-imposed exile and just "do it"!
So here I am. Without much to say, but babbling it anyway.
I used to think that having a southern heritage was something to be extremely proud of, that no one else would understand the southern family dynamics, that no one else would have the same kind of stories to tell.
Flannery O'Conner once said,
"Whenever I'm asked why Southern writers particularly have a penchant for writing about freaks, I say it is because we are still able to recognize one."Is this because southerners are freaks?
No, but my in-laws might think otherwise.
I believe it is because the sweltering heat down there messes with your brain, making you do things and say things you might not ordinarily. So, in a way we might be freaks, but I'll tell you one thing; there are a lot of freaks up here in the northern mid-west as well. You just don't hear about them as much.
I also believe that most southerners want to be in the spotlight. After losing to the North, y'all know what I'm talking about, maybe one of the only ways to show they were still here, still alive, was to create this persona of a gentile, yet quite batty, people, and then write about them.
"What has always been clear, for Southerner and non-Southerner alike, is that Dixie is the most fascinating part of the country. There may be a book out there called 'The Great Midwest' or 'A Turn in the Midwest' or 'The Mind of the Midwest' or 'The Midwestern Mystique', but if there is I'm certainly not aware of it."
--Fred Hobson So, I'll be content to carry on the tradition. I'll write about my family's history, maybe add some northern bits and pieces to the batter, and hopefully bake a nice literary cake.
In between, you can find me over on Facebook. I'm addicted, don't you know? In fact, I wrote a little poem about my addiction...
Facebook, oh Facebook
why must you be
so danged addictive
with all this social repartee?
The games and quizes are
offered up like a buffet,
so many friends of old
stopping by to say "Hey!"
Farmtown and Yoville,
Bejeweled and Farkle,
Mafia Wars and Superpoke Pets,
make my life sparkle.
Facebook, Dear Facebook
you've made my life grand,
and if anyone tries to bother me
they can talk to the hand!
© 2009 Dana Sieben
Thursday, June 18, 2009

My Kid is Growing Up!
Today my oldest son told me to get off my butt and get to writing again.
He's right. I have been neglecting my blog and my poetry. Now that school is out, I do have the time for it, but finding something to write about is a different matter.
Lots has happened in the past few months:
a good friend passed away from colon cancer and I
walked a 5k in her memory. It was at Lincoln Park in Chicago.
I quit my job as school librarian and the boys will be attending public school instead of Catholic school for the first time.
I am still making jewelry. Just posted some new pieces today. Check them out @
Colors of the Woods!

I am addicted to facebook. I have found so many old friends there and considering that it has been 20 years since a lot of us opened the Disney MGM Studios, a reunion was planned for this weekend. Can't go though and I am bummed about it.
Anyway, I'll be back more often with more to enjoy, so check back.
Toodles!
Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Happy Inauguration Day!
I had the pleasure of watching the Inauguration of President Obama this morning and I have to say it was inspiring. We've come a long way, America! Let's keep going in the right direction.
Saturday, January 17, 2009

Orland Park Steak Buffet - Restaurant Review

Tonight Dave and I took the boys out to eat. We chose Orland Park Steak Buffet since we have been before and it was very good. Tonight was no exception.
The buffet has a grill section where the cook whips up steak, chicken kabobs, hotdogs, hamburgers, etc...for you while you wait.
There is a salad bar with tradional salad fixings as well as Middle Eastern salads and hummus.
Alongside Asian noodles, fried chicken, tacos, pot roast, etc. are authentic homemade Middle Eastern foods such as falafel, coucous, tabbouleh, chicken and yellow rice with vegetables, pita bread, and other steak dishes that I can't remember what they are called, but they were delicious!
The dessert bar has homemade puddings, eclairs, fresh fruits, cakes, and more.
Basically there is something for everyone there and it has a very friendly atmostphere.
***Orland Park Steak Buffet is at 15615 S Harlem Ave Orland Park, IL 60462. Phone number is (708) 429-9590.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Meandering Muses
You know, on days like this, I really wish I didn't live in Chicago. (I swear this isn't whiney blogging)
My father was chatting with me on the phone yesterday and he was saying how cold it was down there in Alabama. About how it was probably as cold as up here. How he was shivering in the 39 degree weather.
I probably would have said something to that effect if I had been still living in Alabama. Your blood is thinner down there and anything below 60 degrees is considered winter.
But not yesterday, Dad.
We are under a Blizzard Advisory for tomorrow and we are expecting even more snow on top of what we already have. It's a whopping 12 degrees out with a wind chill of who knows. And that's warm! Tomorrow is going to be colder.
But at least I don't live where my friend, Jen lives. She lives up in British Columbia, Canada where it drops down to -40 degrees in the daytime.
Bless her heart.